How To Develop Social Awareness Skills: [New 6-Step Guide]

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In today’s article you’ll learn all you need to know about how to develop social awareness skills.

Social awareness means having a sense of what is going on around you.

If you have a robust social conscience, you are comfy around other people; You haven’t any problem starting a conversation and connecting with them.

You easily pick up on nonverbal cues that others drop and you understand how to read between the lines.

At work, it’s not difficult for you to understand office politics and the group dynamics that surround it. Your clients love you, and so do your co-workers.

You can increase your social awareness through these six steps.

How To Develop Social Awareness Skills:

Step 1: Get to know more about the people around you, both at work and at home.

It’s very important for you to know the people around you – their likes and dislikes, what is going on with them.

You haven’t got to work to become their confidant, but it will still be great if they see you as someone they can trust. You can do this by taking the time to get to know them.

At work, try to be friendly with your co-workers, superiors, and subordinates.

Check in on them every now and then, and ask them about their family too. If they’re having a birthday, it never hurts to send them a birthday card, or even an e-card.

It is also beneficial to keep your ears down and get used to the way things work in the office. You never know when you will get caught up in office politics, so find out how to tread water.

At home, try to spend as much time as possible with your family. Date night with your partner, take your parents out for dinner, play video games with your kids.

The more time you spend with them and show that you have an interest in what they’re doing, the more you’ll find out how to keep harmony in your home.

Step 2: Consider how your feelings affect other people.

People react to the moods and emotions you display, just as you react to the moods and emotions of other people.

So, before you interact with other people, check your mood first and what you are feeling.

If you are in a bad mood, you are more likely to be a mood damper too. Develop rituals to elevate your mood before you start interacting with other people.

For example, if you are in a bad mood because of traffic on your way to work, shake off the bad mood by stopping by the restroom to check how you look.

If work is stressing you out, try to relax before you go home so your spouse and youngsters do not pick up on the negative energy coming from you.

Step 3: Improve your listening skills.

If you’re a socially conscious person, you know what is commonly going on around you.

That’s because you will understand how to listen and you encourage people to share information with you that they would not normally share with just anyone.

Being a good listener is more than simply having clear hearing and clearly hearing what is being said.

Most of the time, people indicate more than the words just leave their mouths.

This is an unstated message that you need to tune into.

When you are listening to someone, maintain eye contact and focus on the person talking to you. Avoid distractions that will interrupt the conversation.

Pay attention to the person’s facial expressions and how their expressions change during the conversation.

Show them you are listening by nodding and smiling and holding your body in an open position. Don’t interrupt them while they’re talking.

After they’ve finished speaking, provide feedback by repeating what you understood from the conversation. Let them correct you if you’re wrong.

Be honest, truthful, and respectful, and do not judge or argue (1).

Step 4: Observe the people around you.

Some people have a habit of observing others every time they’re in public. This is an activity called people watching.

People watching can be an incredible exercise when you are trying to build a social conscience.

For example, while you are having drinks at a coffee shop, try observing the other people in the coffee shop.

Watch what they’re doing (quietly, so you will not disturb them). Pay attention to their gestures and facial expressions, and try to guess their mood from their gestures and facial expressions.

You will be surprised how much information you can glean from such observations.

Step 5: Learn to be more sensitive.

The world in which we live is becoming more diversified every day.

Every day, we encounter people with beliefs and practices different from ours, whose nationality, language and skin color aren’t the same as ours.

It is extremely important for us to learn to be more sensitive and accepting, or at least tolerant of the variety around us.

How did you learn to be more sensitive and accepting of individuals who are different from you?

The easy answer is to show empathy and treat them with care, the way you would like to be treated yourself. After all, we are all human, irrespective of race, color, language, gender, or religion.

Don’t judge beliefs and practices you do not know about. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and learn more about the culture and beliefs of those around you (2).

Step 6: Get out of your comfort zone.

You need to be more socially aware to feel comfy in your interactions with other people.

The thing is, you must get out and interact with other people in order to become more socially aware. It’s a cycle, and you must get out of your comfort zone so you can get into the cycle.

It’s understandably difficult if you suffer from social awkwardness and anxiety. Nonetheless, you should try.

When someone says hello and smiles at you, try to smile back. When someone invites you to a party, try to show up and mingle.

Get out there and have fun.

Thank you for reading this article on how to develop social awareness skills and I actually hope you take my advice into action.

I wish you good luck and that I hope that its content has been a good help to you.