How To Keep Positive Mindset And Gain Mental Energy: 17 Smart Ways
This new article will show you everything you need to know about how to keep positive mindset.
Addiction is the most dangerous thing in this world. We all are addicted to something or someone. Knowingly or unknowingly our whole life surrounds with our addiction.
Once we are used to of anything, it is extremely tough to get rid of. Even if you don’t want still your mind process those thoughts time and again. This is where you need to recharge your mind so that you can overcome with those thoughts which are harmful for you and your body.
This text introduces about mind and its behavior. Whatever we think that is precisely how we start feel. Hence for a positive life it is essential to keep your mind under your control and for that we need to recharge our mind time to time. This article will help you to accomplish it by explaining different behaviors of mind and how you can deal with them.
How To Keep Positive Mindset
1. When you feel alone talk to yourself
There are many situations occur in our daily lives where we can easily feel lonely. This is because we aren’t closer to family or friends or partner. We all need someone in our lives may be human or a pet to speak about our day and if we don’t get one, we start feeling alone.
If there isn’t any one to talk then write your own thoughts. This will help you to understand what you want, how your day went and how do you feel. If you aren’t a writing person or if you don’t have much time to write then start talking to yourself. Nobody knows you better then you then why don’t you talk to yourself. Don’t worry it doesn’t sound stupid. May be people can laugh on you but nothing wrong in that. We at all times need someone to talk and if you don’t have one, be the one, that too for yourself.
2. When you feel depressed talk to as many people as you can
When you feel depressed or sad talk to as many people as you can but ensure you at all times don’t speak about you try to listen them as well this will help you to heal while you’ll be listening others you’ll start thinking that not only you but so many other people are also suffering from their problems.
While talking, try not to at all times speak about your problems instead speak about your blessings more.
This will provide you with strength to fight with your odds.
3. When it’s tough to concentrate, think the next most thing you want to do
Sometimes it is actually tough to think about your current work. In such cases consider the very next most thing you want to do, may be you have a date in some time otherwise you want to go home and want to take a hot bubble bath or it could be anything like that pie in you fridge which you have waited for entire day. Just consider the joy you’ll be getting while doing that but before reaching there you need to complete this current task and that’s how it will help you to concentrate.
4. If you feel nervous just keep your mind empty/thoughtless and then you’ll feel confident
It doesn’t matter whether it’s a big presentation or a university viva, a life changing moment or an easy thought to execute, if you’re feeling nervous then this is because you have so many positive and negative thoughts there in your brain. Your brain is feeling so much under pressure. Always remember one thing that pressure works only for inside stuff to be cooked and it at all times should be balanced. More pressure can cause overheated food whereas less pressure makes it non cooked.
So at all times try to make a good balance in your brain and if you fail in that just try to keep your mind empty. No thoughts at all, just go and provide your best without any kind of fear. I cannot assure that this will take you on top but I bet that this will boost your confidence and this confidence can help you to top.
5. If there are problems in your work life then take break for a day or a week and go for vacation
A break is at all times a great way to recharge your mind. This break could be from anything, whether it’s from study or from work or from your daily usual life. Whenever you feel like there are problems and you neither want to face them nor are they getting solved in such cases best way to get relief is to go for an outing or a trip.
Plan accordingly to your budget, mood and time. Even I used to have so much pressure during my office days and then I used to take a day off and trust me that used to help me to handle that all pressure. Same thing applies to your college life every time exams are coming just take a day off without study and energize you to study for next entire week. I know it’s tough to implement but I used to do this and it helped me during my studies.
6. To solve issues between you and your family or friends all you need to do is start listening others too
Whenever there’s a fight it’s because no one wants listen. All of us just simply blame each others. We communicate to blame not to understand. First start listening and then you start to see and feel the difference that how this affects your mind in a positive way. All you need to do is to before saying anything from your side just listen what others want to say to you. This helps to save relationships in addition to your energy.
7. To deal with short temper try te be quite
Short temper is a really major problem in today’s life. Everybody wants to say but no one wants to listen and this is why temper takes place. Short temper is very dangerous; one can even kill someone during that. Because when we are angry it is actually tough to differentiate between right and wrong. In such cases it’s a really good practice to be quite. It won’t only save your energy but also it will help you to grow personally. Once you start practicing you’ll feel the change.
8. Try to mould situation according to you and if you know that you’re not that capable enough then ignore
In any kind of difficult situation try to mould things according to you. Try your best to get things under control and if this all is not happening and you know that this couldn’t be controlled anymore then start ignoring things. Just go with the flow as you cannot help it anymore. You have done your best and now nothing can be done from your side. There is a limit in this world for everything and after that limit you cannot change anything.
9. Stop expecting, start appreciating
Start appreciating as much as you can. People who expect a lot are looser because they don’t do anything on their own instead expect it to be done from someone else. This doesn’t go long way. Firstly stop expecting too much this won’t take you anywhere except disgrace. Start appreciate others, this will cost you nothing but will help you to create a positive environment around you which will provide you with a new thought process towards life.
10. Be confident enough to introduce who you are
Never be ashamed about your identity. Your identity introduces you and it is essential in any area that people know the real you. There is nothing wrong if you work in a small shop or as a waiter. Also it doesn’t matter if you’re disabled otherwise you have some sexual disorder. These aren’t the parameter to judge you. Always judge a person on the basis of their nature and attitude towards life and other people and if someone judges you on your job or home or lifestyle then ensure then absolutely he/she is not the one you should spend your precious time with.
11. No matter how hard the situation is, there’s at all times a key for each lock
Start learning from each and each incident, no matter it’s tiny or huge. There is at all times a learning in everything all you need is to understand and analyze it well. This will help you every time you stuck in any situation/problem. Problems normally occur as a result of lack of resources, miscommunications or bad/no planning. Whenever any problem occurs, try to find a solution rather than blaming.
Try to find the reason why it happened as sometimes it may help you to resolve the issue. In some cases the backtracking is not required as it doesn’t matter how much you go deeper it won’t ever provide you with a solution, in such cases one should at all times try to find the solution rather than backtrack the problem.
12. Give 10 minutes daily to you to consider yourself
Always try to find some time for yourself. It is essential that you should know about you, your needs and how do you feel. You should at all times be your precedence. No matter how hard it’s but at all times tries to save some time for you. Even 10 minutes on daily basis would be good if you can try this. All you need is just observe your day and think over it that how did it go, is this the way you wanted it to be, are you happy/pleased your day.
If answers are yes then it’s you way to go. You are doing what you want in your life but if answers are not any then start thinking over it that how come you can be the one who can make you happy and can make your life the way you want it to be. At the end of the day it should be you who needs to be happy from you. If you aren’t able to make yourself happy then start working in that direction. It will certainly help you to grow.
13. Stop comparing, start respecting
Comparison is never good. One should never compare with other. We aren’t aware about their struggles all we can see is their success. Behind every success there’s a story which tell a lot about the situation that person has been through. It is very tough to feel that just by listening. Hence never ever compare yourself with others. Appreciate whatever you have, some may have more than you but some may have less than yours.
Start respecting everybody without any expectation. It is not a good practice that you respect a person just purposely and when it is finished you don’t respect them anymore. Never have such practice where you are continually suffering from moral values. We all are blessed with a human being and we should respect humanity.
14. Speak only when it is critical. The more you listen, the more you save your energy
Listening is the most powerful strength one can have. If you’re a good listener, you’ll gradually develop the power to analyze things/situations quickly. As you speak less and listen more, you gain more and more knowledge a couple of person or situation and this helps you to understand details about it. The other advantage of listening is that the less you speak the more you save your energy. Also if you speak less and listen more the chances of fight in any communication drastically reduce. So from now choose your energy wisely.
15. Try to help a needy one on daily basis or every time possible
“A friend in need is a friend indeed” is a famous say and it is actually justified in all of our cases I can say. We all have so many friends but that one friend who helps us in every difficult situation is the one for us. We normally help our family and friends selflessly but why only them why not the others?
Start to help the needy ones, no matter whether he/she is a human being or an animal. We are humans and humanity is our religion. Follow your religion and try to help a needy one on daily basis. If somebody needs your help in work do it, if someone is hungry, feed them no matter whether or not they are human or animal. Everybody wants to eat. Hence start with food, try to give food to needy ones.
16. If you have a habit of over thinking then start thinking about over thinking
Ohh yeah, it’s a bit tough to understand here what I want to say. Well let me provide you with one example, suppose you are on a boat in a full moon night, floating slowly, breezing is relaxing you and now you want to sleep but abruptly one thought about that colleague comes in your mind and you start thinking over it.
Now you are trapped with that thought and now are imagining all negative things he/she did to you. Now you are angry and you will ruin your charming night simply because of that one thought. That single click of fight gave you so many thoughts and then you started floating in thoughts rather than water.
This is called over thinking where you kill your time in chain of never ending thoughts. So every time you stuck in such kind of situation try to consider this over thinking that why are you thinking about it? Does it really make sense now to rethink over it or it’s just killing my precious time. Then you’ll be free from over thinking and mind will be recharged.
17. Dream high, aim high
Apart from those daily aims which I asked you to take, you also should aim for yourself according to your needs and your dreams. Your dreams should at all times be big, “the huge you think, the better you get” so it doesn’t matter if you’re rich or poor you should at all times dream big so that you can aim high.
You can reach on top with a big dream and a big aim only. If you are aware about your needs and you understand how to fulfill them then you should dream for something else. Something which you cannot achieve, at all times dream about that, this will provide you with inspiration to do something extraordinary. If you are aiming high and you’re able to grow in the right direction you should at all times be conscious about your thoughts, your words and your deeds.