Today you’ll find out how to make him want you.
What do women want in life? We want it all: love, affection, passion, conversation, jewelery and modesty… the list is endless. What every woman wants, but refuses to admit to, is a man who drools over her (hypothetically). We want them to sit when we tell them to and come when we call (literally).
What do men want in life? They want a lady who takes care of them, loves them, and wants them. We’ve come up with a very easy way to get him begging like a dog in no time!
How to Make Him Want You:
1. Be confident.
This is first and foremost. You need to be confident in and out of the bedroom. Confidence is a big change and implies your ability to take charge and please your man. The second you start complaining about your love handles, covering your body or turning off the lights, the man part will go into hiding.
If self-confidence is a problem for you, start focusing on yourself more. Make time for a manicure, facial, or massage. Pamper yourself with highlights and a spray tan. Taking time for yourself will provide you with the confidence boost you need. You must feel comfy in your own skin; confidence is a hard thing to fake.
Without self-confidence, he wouldn’t beg like a dog; she will be a dog with hers [limp] tail between his legs.
2. Be pleased with your appearance.
Men want women who look good. More importantly, a man wants you to look good for him.
You haven’t got to spend hours each day doing your hair and makeup, but grooming is important. If your hair is frizzy, and your highlights have grown out, it is time for a mini makeover. If he comes home every day for you to eat ice cream and relax in your flannel pajamas, he is possibly not going to provide you with a second glance. Frumpy is not sexy.
Try to dedicate another 15 minutes a day to your entire appearance. Brush your hair, apply mascara and lip gloss, and paint your nails. You’ll feel better about yourself, and he’ll notice the difference.
3. Be yourself.
He chose you for a reason. He loves your laugh, your smile, and all of your quirky quirks.
Don’t compare yourself with other women. Make him laugh, make fun of yourself, and do not take life too seriously. If you second guess every move, he will too.
Remind him daily why you’re the woman for him and, in turn, he will remind you why he’s the man for you.
4. Pay attention to him.
It’s not all the time sexual. His mind is the key to his soul… and it’s also the key to his penis. Listen to him. Compliment him. Compliment him. Brag about him. Love him. Don’t be afraid to be intimate with him.
It’s easy to get into fights over little things with him and make sure to show him that you care and want to be closer to you. Try to remember, every day, why you fell in love. If he knows you are listening, he’ll feel closer to you
5. Flirt with him.
Tease him in life, in bed, and while he is at work. Build anticipation by being the sexual seducer he secretly wants from you.
Flirt with him when you are out with friends or at a company event. When he is deep inside
conversation with the c-worker, look him in the eye, then turn your gaze to the package. This will send a clear message that you’re thinking about what you want to do with it later. Don’t be surprised if he wants to leave the party early.
Flirt with him while you are at the films. Let him know that you’re having a hard time focusing on movies. Whisper in his ear “We have to get out of here before I jump over your bones.”
Tease him in bed. Just before he is about to get up and take a shower, come back to him so he spoons you. Gently rub towards it. Tell him you know he does not have time right now, but you cannot wait for him to come home so you can finish what you started.
Teasing him while he’s at work will be a welcome distraction for him. Business is very demanding and stressful; foreplay, in the form of teasing, will give him something to look forward to. Send him messages throughout the day, sharing with him your sexual fantasies, new positions you’d like to try, or what you will be wearing when he gets home.
6. Send him naughty pictures/text messages.
Everyone’s naughty scale is different. Whatever your threshold, go a little more than that.
If you are shy enough, send him a photo of you sucking your finger. Follow with a text message letting him know you wish your finger was something else.
If you are really kinky, take a selfie of yourself masturbating or using your favourite toy. Send it to him and tell him you wish you did not have to do it yourself, but he is nowhere to be found. He’ll be home before you know it.
As long as you get out of your comfort zone, the shock itself will make it difficult. Men are visual creatures. You will make the rest of his work day irresistible.
7. Show him that you want to make him happy.
As much as you can turn on him with your body and dirty words, let him know that you’re thinking about his happiness and are committed to finding new ways to please him. Making it all about him will make him feel like a man.
When you are about to start messing around, focus on the fun. Let him see you touch yourself. Ask him what he wants you to do next.
8. Be adventurous in bed.
Ask him what his fantasies are and share yours with him. Make a deal that you’ll fulfill his fantasy if he fulfills yours. In acting out a fantasy, there isn’t any room for guesswork. The person has already told you what they want, so there is a sense of confidence and joy that comes instantly from the action. If you haven’t got a fantasy, create one.
Tell him you want to try role playing. Describe to him, in detail, your fantasies. For example, tell him that your fantasy is to be a flight attendant who has an affair with a pilot. Tell him you want him to be your pilot.
9. Give him a massage.
Men love it when their women are sensual and delicate. They want to be cared for and treated with affection.
Be sure to create a calming atmosphere. Turn on some relaxing music and light some candles. Using aromatherapy oils will heighten his senses and remind him that you care about his well-being.
While you are massaging him, keep talking to a minimum; let your body do the talking. When you are nearing the end of the massage, remove your clothes while he’s face down. Start rubbing every inch of your body against it. Keep massaging him, telling him he cannot touch you until you are done. Make him wait so long as possible for him to force himself on top of you.
10. Talk dirty to him.
Use your words. Say all the things he wants you to say and do not hesitate. He wants to know that you want him to do dirty and unthinkable things to you. There aren’t many boundaries with dirty talk. Remember that the purpose of talking dirty is to paint a sexual image for him.
Always start with light dirty talk and build up as you go. During foreplay, for example, tell him you like it when he bites your nipples. Tell him to bite them harder. When it gets hot, let him know what else you want him to do for you. Use words you would not normally use. He will respond by being just as dirty, if not dirtier. Rip off the dirty levels and do not stop until each of you climaxes.
These tips will not just make him beg like a dog; they will improve your relationship and revive your sex life. Remember, you are his treat… make him beg for it!
Thanks for reading this article on how to make him want you and I actually hope you take action on my advice. I wish you good luck and that I hope that its content has been a good help to you.